sometimes the photos just take themselves

before my boss sean left, he took a few days off.

while he was away, and right before he was to come back, someone thought itd be funny

if everyone put their name on a post it

and put it on something in his office.

basically claiming those items.

sean got a kick out of it and gave many of us what we had asked for.

for example, i got a dell external dvd burner.

i had my name on the little tv.

this makes me so happy

a book

xTx has been a “friend” since before most of you kids have been alive.

funny thing though, we have never actually physically met.

in some ways that makes things better because, whereas some want to love you for your image, or your fancy clothes, or fast cars, its not like that for me and my beach city amiga.

i know that xTx loves me for my mind. and the words that come out of that crazy place.

and likewise, it has been pure joy watching her rise from the bowels of AOL poetry message boards and take the blogosphere by storm.

and heres a book. a little tiny book you can hold in your hand. and inside? all xTx – will it be dirty? probs. will it be nsfw? hopefully. will it be fantastic: guaranteed.

somehow the book sold out even before it went on sale. that sort of mystery intrigues me. i hope shes making a second printing cuz it was such a nice feeling to have this waiting for me next to my bills bills bills.

congrats xTx, i will run home and enjoy this as i soak in my tub.


speechless in san diego

danielle in san diego

i have pretty low expectations when i go to san dieger. it’s not my favorite town.

danielle in san diego

but with football season over and vegas still buzzing all through me, danielle invited me to her lair and i said omg omg photo shoot?

danielle in san diego

and she said si.

danielle in san diego

my favorite word

danielle in san diego

which thankfully is danielles favorite word too

danielle in san diego


oh mama Si ta

along the way i said hey danielle, i really wanna meet yr ole favorite blogger Raspberry, but i lost her phone number

and danielle said, no fear, i have this magical kurdt cobain longsleeve, lets just think of her and say nice things and she’ll appear

and suddenly san diego didnt suck so badly any more.